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Post by Princess on Nov 8, 2006 22:43:50 GMT 7
Hey guys, when you date a woman, you gotta ask a woman, ok?
When you date a woman, I totally agree with jonathan that you'd have a totally respect a female when you bring the lady out for a meal. However, most ladies love a guy who is confident and can make decisions decisively.
Firstly, allow the girl to make suggestions. (Prepare a list of places of different atmosphere and cruisine) - do this only if you're really serious about this girl, otherwise, save the effort and take her somewhere near Geylang where you tell her there's "really good local delights there such as the Frog Porridge".
If the girl says she don't know, pretend to think about it for a while and present your ideas CASUALLY. Do not make it as though you had planned it (though girls like confident and decisive men, planning it way beforehand would make you look desperate) Be a gentleman and allow her to choose. If she doesn't, then choose one which you think would suit you and most importantly, you wallet! - don't EVER make the girl pay or go-Dutch on your first date, it's a no-no.
If the girl chooses one, then that saves all the efforts and move to the place asap.
IMPORTANT NOTE: If you date falls on Fri - Sun, please make a reservation at all the restaurants on your list so that you don't end up at a hawker centre near your HDB flat.
Any other queries, gentlemen?
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Post by gynette on Nov 9, 2006 20:03:21 GMT 7
i am girl not a guy. so sorry. juz wish to say something as a part of girl. bringing a girl out to eat is NOT DEPENDING ABOUT DE PLACE. is TO ENJOY THE FOOD AND PLACE. perhaps de place may be very dirty. hot and humid. some of de girls may not complain because de food is good. but if they are those kinds of pampered girls. you cant possibly bring them there because they will confirm complain ABOUT ALMOST EVERYTHING. as about de couple going on dutch. i tink it may be a good one because. de guy can save money and perhaps buying something sweet for de girl. but perhaps if de girl do not have money.. de guy can also pay for her de. xD hmm. different people have different views. =)
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Post by Princess on Nov 9, 2006 20:34:36 GMT 7
I mean if the guy isn't really serious about this girl he's dating, then he should just bring her to some cheapo stalls by the roadside and tell her the food there is good. If a guy really likes a girl, by all means, bring the girl out and try to amaze her with whatever he is made of.
((P.S: The tips are for the guys, so I asked the "gentlemen". It has really got nothing to do with you.))
Going dutch is a very popular trend amongst the Westerners, but face the facts, no matter how "westernized" we Singaporeans are, we are kinda still "chee-na". So if a guy wanna make a real good impression on the girl he's bringing out during the weekends, treat her something she deserves instead of asking her to pay for what she eat. This shows how generous the guy can be.
And guys, please please please remember your etiquette!
1. Wear appropriately, and only wear colors that suits you, don't try something you're not comfortable with 2. ALWAYS open and close the door for the ladies 3. ALWAYS pull the chair and push them back for the ladies (this applies to no matter where you are, even if you are at a really cheapskate place) 4. Never swear or curse even if the taxi driver pissed you off 5. Never talk on the phone for too long and ignore the ladies (if it is your mom - underaged gentlemen - please inform them that you're on a really important date beforehand) 6. Never dig your nose or ear in front of the ladies 7. Remember to wipe your mouth after you eat and offer a tissue to the ladies if the place doesn't offer napkins (Ladies appreciate guys who brings tissue out with them)
Well, go get them boys!!!
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Post by ZenShi on Nov 10, 2006 14:58:42 GMT 7
good points taken but i still think a guy has to be his truth self instead of putting up a false front and so, i think its up to the girl whether to place a thumb up or to put you down, even though sometimes the predictment is far more worst than those from superstar competition. still, go for what you wanted guys.
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Post by Princess on Nov 11, 2006 8:18:53 GMT 7
Yupz... but making a good impression is the most important factor of all, even in job interviews. Once the girl has a good impression of you, she will allow development of the relationship. However, if a girl feels disgusted from the first time you bring her out, then I think you'll say ta-ta~ to her.
The above-mentioned tips in my posts are meant for those who can afford it, and are bringing out girls who are like maybe, in poly and above? Coz by that time, girls will be lookin out for the x-factor in guys. Gentlemen would be given extra credit. Lol...
But for sec sch ppl, dun worry, more tips here! If you're worried that bringing a girl out to MacDonald's or hawker won't make any great impression, try something else other than movies and food. Don't be a bore! The girl may have a queue like the Project Superstar queue where donkey number of guys are trying to get her to watch the same movie (provided she's a real beauty). The followings are a few suggestions you may consider:
1. Rollerblading at East Coast Park (bring along a pet dog, it would really create topics to talk about) 2. Ice-skating at Jurong Entertainment Centre (physical contact would be a MUST! Hehe... unless the girl is such a pro) 3. Other kinds of sports which the girl is in familiar with (archery, baseball, etc... but provided the girl is sporty enough to take it up) 4. Gaming centre (ONLY choose this option if your girl likes gaming as well, if not she'd be bored to death) 5. Expo Hall (when there's really good exhibition going on, such as the recent car exhibit) 6. Volunteering community works (bring her along ONLY if you're a passionate volunteer yourself, no point bringing her there if you're not one) 7. Basketball session (for those who SHINES on the court. If you suck, forget it. But NEVER consider soccer.) 8. Zoo (bring tons of water and inform the girl beforehand. bring enough money too!) 9. Sentosa (personally I'd recommend Sunset Bay or Palawan Beach for a morning tan and game of volley ball, before proceeding to other visitor spots. Don't forget to catch the dolphins in action! Take tons of photos to remind her of the time you had there) 10. Ghost hunting (although it's quite dangerous to venture into abandoned mansions, this is a really excited one, well, better than watching some horror movie right? Go in groups and make the atmosphere less scary for you! Haha...)
After the sport, I'm sure the girl won't mind MacDonald's coz she'd be starved!!!
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Post by strippera on Apr 9, 2007 4:23:00 GMT 7
get the girl to pay for the meal
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Post by gynette on Apr 10, 2007 16:52:18 GMT 7
girl and guy can always take turn to pay for de meal. it does not mean tat de guy muz always pay de.
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Post by strippera on Apr 11, 2007 5:26:24 GMT 7
ya the girl also can pay, when its my turn to pay can i miss a turn
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Post by gynette on Apr 12, 2007 19:42:42 GMT 7
hahaha. how i noe. lol. don sad. find a good girlfren lo
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Post by strippera on Apr 13, 2007 11:04:54 GMT 7
find a rich one
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Post by gynette on Apr 18, 2007 13:50:40 GMT 7
hahaa. i got 1 girlfren. she v v rich. recently jus broke up with boyfren. LOL. =x
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Post by strippera on Apr 20, 2007 13:25:30 GMT 7
can i hook up with her since im in need of money
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