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Post by xvivacex on Mar 29, 2007 23:26:58 GMT 7
should divorced be encouraged??will u get affect as a child?many ppl do face this problem and hope that their parents won't go to this extent,but sadly there r ppl who choose this route,so is this encouraged??
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Post by PrinCeiFied on Mar 30, 2007 1:16:51 GMT 7
What a silly question, of course should not be encouraged la. As a child to see the people he loves the most tear apart, his heart will tear too. He won't know who to choose as he is still a child and he might not be happy with what the adults and judges decide for him. Who are they to choose how his live should turn out? And yet again, he's a child, who's to trust he knows what he is doing? That's why divorce only causes more problems to surface over all those which the family already faces. Some people choose this road because they think its the way out for them. An alternative would be to spend some time alone and enjoy the solitude, get off each other's back. Who knows? After that, they realise they cant do without oe another and love each other again, treasure each other more?
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Post by xvivacex on Mar 30, 2007 22:43:00 GMT 7
What a silly question, of course should not be encouraged la. As a child to see the people he loves the most tear apart, his heart will tear too. He won't know who to choose as he is still a child and he might not be happy with what the adults and judges decide for him. Who are they to choose how his live should turn out? And yet again, he's a child, who's to trust he knows what he is doing? That's why divorce only causes more problems to surface over all those which the family already faces. Some people choose this road because they think its the way out for them. An alternative would be to spend some time alone and enjoy the solitude, get off each other's back. Who knows? After that, they realise they cant do without oe another and love each other again, treasure each other more? Just like abortion,you got to put this into situations,if both parties are not happy,and this affects the work of both parties,shouldn't it be encouraged?Think about it,put this into various situations.It's similar to abortions.
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Post by Princess on Mar 31, 2007 0:10:56 GMT 7
For me, i believe a balanced stand is necessary in these instances of divorce and abortions. Individual-appropriateness. It's dependent on the varying cases but the general idea is that if two people can't be together anymore, more harm would be done than good to keep them together. Being apart does not mean u stop caring for one another. There are many cases whereby people are still bonded by children and that is the factor that makes them enjoy having an extended family network if they learnt how to sppreciate it. This comes from personal experiences, since my mom and dad are divorced and now i'm married.
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Post by strippera on Apr 10, 2007 21:23:58 GMT 7
if got kid divorce is dumb
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Post by strippera on Apr 10, 2007 21:24:15 GMT 7
u have to cut the kid into two for fairness liddat
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Post by d4thday on Apr 11, 2007 15:18:38 GMT 7
if got kid divorce is dumb Let's take that if you are a child from a sour relationship: - Can you stand people shouting at each other time to time everyday? - That either parent is not home most of the time and that when both meet, turns out to be as above? - Parents that don't speak to you? Everyone has an ideal scenario and marriage in a sense is an ideal scenario to work for and IS NOT an ideal scenario to begin with. The world doesn't works on the Good OLD fashion way anymore. Staying together even when the Dream had died is no longer deemed as "the best way".
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Post by d4thday on Apr 11, 2007 15:56:14 GMT 7
Oh ya. My stance on Divorce? I will recommend abortion and divorce to those who NEEDS it. Those things can be lifesavers if you put them to good use.
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Post by Princess on Apr 14, 2007 1:01:45 GMT 7
I would recommend counselling and adequate education as a measure.
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Post by strippera on Apr 14, 2007 7:18:34 GMT 7
don't divorce la, in the first case why marry
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